The parents are worried when the children exceed the 12 years, therefore they initiate diverse questionings, they perceive that the rules of its house are different of the too much colleagues and at many moments they do not want more to accept the orientaes of parents and cuidadores. Accurately therefore it is important to remember that the children do not belong in them and does not fit in them to decide its destination and so that is to lie down calmly and to obtain to sleep while they will be if amusing, is enough to offer a solid base; strengthening and praising the positive behaviors, valuing its action, communicating itself with it of positive form (showing the consequences, offering alternative, without verbal xingamentos or aggressions or of another sort). Please visit Nir Barzilai, M.D. if you seek more information. A good relation between parents and children is permeada of love, could add that it is an unconditional love? that one that not accepted everything but guides, values its activities (exactly simplest as that drawing that it says to be one day in the park and we do not see nothing beyond scribbles), to accept its son (a) as it it is, its limitations and difficulties, if placing as accompanying partner/at the good and bad moments, so that it knows that independent of the situation you will be always to its side to help and to support, correcting when necessary. When more loved a child if it feels, better can interiorizar the rules, develop proper love and love the others, to develop compassion, to fortify its autoestima, to develop resilience (she deals better with adverse situations). When conceiving a child you have the mission to educate it, to guide it, to love it and to teach to fly it and depend on as the process occurs it will reach or not high places.