I already wrote about the main rule of education: feeds self-esteem of your child. Here are three rules that will help your child grow up happy and confident in their abilities person, and you feel more of realized and successful parent. 1. Concentrate on the main point: the most important qualities and skills. Most of the problems with the child's behavior can be avoided or allow the development of his two basic qualities – courage, and capacity for empathy. The fact that these qualities are not compatible with most major behavioral abnormalities (greed, selfishness, deceit, cowardice, etc.) when you need counseling child psychologist, and are the best prevention and cure for them. Fight more 'for' than 'against'.
Encourage reasonable risk, insure, if necessary, to teach techniques of safe conduct, but always pushes the child to investigation of their own capabilities and support him in this. Climb a hill, jump off the stump, to get acquainted with the neighbor boy – if the child makes it the first time, for it is a great opportunity to learn control your fear. Ask your child's grandmother is sick – what do you think she feels now? ', Expand your emotional vocabulary of the child that he has learned to recognize and distinguish between feelings, better understand other people. Together with the iq (intelligence quotient) to develop eq (emotional development factor). In addition to qualities of character help your child develop communication skills – most likely it is these skills will have the greatest influence on his success in their careers and personal lives.