How many people live tied to the past and unintentionally have missed his long life, untapped opportunities because they have not even seen them. Alone they placed an anchor on that part of his life and it is likely that even if they so wish, can not find the exit. We have to learn to release and let go the lived experience, confront the past in a razonadora way so let’s not stumble over it. When you have experiences that have left marks with events that we do not choose, not wanted and not provoking, we ask ourselves repeatedly why? I What did I do to deserve this? Why not I did such a thing? How is that I didn’t realize it? Why not I kept quiet?, etc. Usually when abuse, deceit or abuse are experienced, a sense of pain and rancor manifests to think that grievance was a deliberately. It still living and suffering continuously until you return them vulnerable.
This situation has caused a direct impact on their future, remains the latent fear that can happen again and relive this pain. Form not aware the present is determined by the past them impossible to ignore it and is unwittingly do their identity. Flee does nothing. It must confront the past without remorse, maintain the present with confidence and deal with our future without fear. There may be similarities, but each situation is different, the characters are not the same, nor the circumstances; but the restoration process if it is equal to every situation. It is start taking firm decision to make the transition from current peace and immediate happiness hatred or pain.
Lets start resentment because you want to, it recognizes that you’ve not been happy with those memories and thoughts. With all honesty decides to forgive and forgive you for all that past that’s already happened, forgive and forget, closes the circle. Set new goals, carries out activities that motivate you to feel joy constantly, keep in your thinking and your feeling at all times everything is easy for me, I trust in me and what I can everything, do your best. Ultimately have to face the passed in the present and connect it to the future to learn how to live, face him to overcome. It is to fight rationally in the here and now to reconcile you with yourself and enjoy a harmonious life moment by moment. It is worthwhile to try what you can lose? Do you want to know more? Original author and source of the article